Desert rat with a soft spot

Desert rat born and raised, and no, I don't think it's too hot here. I'm 38, single mom to one awesome kid, and I've finally reached the point where I want something for myself again. I manage a shipping warehouse and I can out-swear most of the dock workers. Weekends you'll find me at the dunes or pretending I'm going to start hiking. I'm direct, a little sarcastic, and I've been told my laugh could clear a room. Looking for a man with calloused hands, a kind heart, and zero interest in playing games. I'm too old and too tired for games.