MCAS flight path familiarity

I've lived under the flight path so long the jets sound like silence. I'm 38, a school counselor, and I've spent the last decade helping other people and ignoring my own needs. It's time to fix that imbalance. I'm looking for a man who's emotionally literate, which I know is rare but I'm asking anyway. I'm warm, witty, and I make a green chile that's won office potlucks three years running. I want someone to grow into something real with. I've got the foundation, I just need the right person to build with.