Arizona girl, no filter

I've lived in Arizona my whole life and people still ask if I have a cactus in my yard. I do, actually. I'm 39, a massage therapist, and I've been single long enough that my mom has stopped asking. I'm opinionated, outdoorsy when it's under 100, and I make the best guacamole you've ever had. I want a man who's handy, funny, and emotionally available, which I know is a tall order but I'm worth the search. Let's grab a coffee and see if there's a spark. I'm done settling for fine.