Strathmore mom ready for her own life

I live in Strathmore in a house with a porch I never sit on because I'm always doing something for someone else. I'm forty one, two kids in middle school, and I just went back to work part time at a law office downtown. For fifteen years I was a mom and a wife and nothing else and I'm rediscovering the parts of me that got buried. I want someone who sees me as a whole person, not a role. Someone who'll sit on that porch with me with a glass of wine and listen to me figure out who I'm becoming.