Rose Hill golfer wants a new partner

I golf at Rose Hill most weekends and I'm terrible at it but I keep going because the course is pretty and the beer cart girl knows my order. I'm forty three, divorced, sales rep for a medical device company, and I travel around upstate for work so I'm hard to pin down sometimes. I want someone independent, someone who has his own thing going on, and who doesn't need me around every second to feel secure. When I am around though, I'm all in. I want quality time that feels chosen, not obligatory. There's a difference and I've learned it matters.