Seeking someone consistent and not make it weird

I admit that i'm a planner who secretly hopes someone will plan something for me for once. Candidly, i've been told I give off strong independent woman energy but secretly I want someone to lean on sometimes. And if you are wondering about thing number 29715 that matters to me, it is consistency. I'm free Sunday afternoons and I'd love to sit somewhere and talk somewhere in Flint. I'm not looking for anything heavy but I want someone to try new restaurants with in Santa Barbara without pressure. Honestly, tell me your favorite Medford memory and I'll share mine.