Aged out of the college scene

I aged out of the college bar scene about two years ago and I'm still figuring out where the adults go. I'm 30, a marketing coordinator, and I'm looking for someone in the same awkward transition. I'm fun but not crazy, smart but not pretentious, and I want someone who matches that energy. I love the beach in winter when it's empty and the theater downtown when it's full. I'm looking for a man who wants to build something real, not just collect matches. I've done that and it's boring. Let's do better.