South Salem life, north star heart

I live in South Salem, work in insurance, and on paper my life is very normal. But I've got a lot of depth that doesn't show up in a job description. I'm forty, divorced for three years, no kids but open to someone who has them. I'm looking for a man who's emotionally intelligent, financially responsible, and done playing the field. I've dated enough since my divorce to know what I don't want, and I'm clear on what I do: a partner who shows up, communicates, and wants to build something real. I'm warm, honest, and I've been told I give great advice but I'm working on just listening. If you're serious about finding someone, I'm serious about being found.