Capitol city girl wanting something real

I work at the state capitol in an admin role and the thing nobody tells you about government jobs is how oddly social they are. I've been in Salem six years now, I'm thirty, and I'm single after a two-year relationship that ended last fall. I'm looking for a man who's stable — emotionally and in life generally — who wants something that could actually go somewhere. I'm not twenty-two anymore and I don't want to spend months texting without meeting. I like trying new restaurants, the occasional night out downtown, and quiet evenings at home. I'm loyal, funny once I'm comfortable, and I want someone who makes me feel safe enough to be myself.