Transplant From NYC Who Slowed Down on Purpose

I left Brooklyn four years ago because I was tired of paying two thousand dollars for a closet and never seeing the sun. I'm 35, a freelance editor, and Rochester gave me space and quiet and a yard I don't know what to do with. The trade-off is that my dating pool shrank from ocean to pond. I'm looking for a man who isn't obsessed with comparing this city to New York. I've met too many transplants who can't stop talking about what they left behind. I want someone who's here now, fully. Someone who sees what's in front of him rather than what he came from. I'm building a life in this city and I want a partner who's building one too. Same place, same direction.