Newly Single and Rediscovering Myself

I'm 31 and I just got out of a seven-year relationship that I thought was going to end in a wedding and instead ended in a U-Haul. I'm not heartbroken, I'm relieved, and the relief itself surprised me. I work as an occupational therapist and I live in a new apartment in the Neighborhood of the Arts that I'm slowly making mine. I want to date casually at first. No pressure, no labels, just two people figuring out if they enjoy each other. I've been coupled since I was twenty-three and I barely know who I am on my own. I want someone patient with that process. A man who finds a woman in transition interesting rather than exhausting. Let's keep it light and see what grows.