Recovering From a Breakup, Ready for Better

Three months ago I found out my boyfriend of four years had a whole other relationship I didn't know about. I'm 30, I'm a paralegal, and I'm done being naive. I'm not bitter, I'm just recalibrated. I want someone who understands that trust is earned incrementally and doesn't resent the process. I live in Beechwood and I've been spending a lot of time at the beach near the lake because water is healing and I don't care if that sounds cliché. I'm looking for someone honest to a fault. The kind of man who'll tell me something difficult because keeping it from me would be worse. Integrity is my new non-negotiable and I'm not lowering that bar for anyone.