Cobbs Hill Sunset Watcher Seeks Companion

There's a spot on Cobbs Hill where you can see the whole city skyline and I go there whenever I need perspective. I'm 32, a speech therapist, and I work with kids on the spectrum, which means my patience is professional-grade and my heart is constantly expanding. I want a man who is kind in the way he speaks about other people. Not just to their faces, but when they're not in the room. I've discovered that how someone talks about strangers tells you everything about who they are. My last relationship ended because he was charming to me and cruel to waitstaff. That dissonance eventually became unbearable. I'm looking for consistency of character. It's simple but it's rare.