Ready to meet someone and see what clicks

Really though, i'm at a stage where I want someone who'll grow with me not just beside me. Between you and me, i'm a chronic over-committer who says yes to everything and then has a breakdown in my car. Between you and me, i'm into restoring old furniture and I've ruined some good pieces learning. I'm free after my shift ends and I'd love to get coffee somewhere in Maine. I'm not looking for anything heavy but I want someone to check out events with in Des Moines without pressure. I'm in Bismarck so if you're local send me a message.