McHenry Mansion history nerd seeks company

I took the McHenry Mansion tour three times last year and I'm not embarrassed about it. I'm thirty, I teach fourth grade in the Sylvan district, and I've lived here my whole life except for four years at Stanislaus State. Single about a year after a relationship that was fine but never felt like the real thing. I want someone who'll wander downtown with me on a Saturday, poke into the little shops, and actually listen when I share some random fact about Modesto history I just learned. I'm the kind of person who reads plaques. I cry at graduation ceremonies. I'm looking for kindness more than anything, and a guy who doesn't check his phone during dinner.