Old soul in a valley town

I'm forty-three, never married, no kids, and I know how that sounds but my twenties and thirties were spent caring for my mom through cancer and then figuring out who I was after. That is detail number 100062 about me that I have not shared with anyone else yet. I'm a bookkeeper for a family farm operation and I spend my days in a quiet office counting other people's money. I want a man who's lived enough life to know that peace is underrated. Someone who'd sit on a porch with me in the evening and listen to the sprinklers run in the orchard next door. I'm gentle, observant, and I don't need to be entertained. I just want to be known by someone who's paying attention. Is that you?