Rebuilt my life, ready to share it

Three years ago I was mid-divorce, living with my parents, and wondering if I'd ruined my life. Now I've got my own place near the college, a job in IT that I like, and a dog I spoil rotten. I'm thirty-three and I did the hard work of rebuilding and I'm proud of it. I want a man who's also been through something and come out the other side with some self-awareness instead of bitterness. Someone who'd hike the Tuolumne River trail with me on a Saturday morning and then argue about where to get lunch. I'm sarcastic, loyal, and I give really good advice that I should follow more often. I want something that starts easy and grows solid. No rush, no pressure.