Nurse with weird hours and a big heart

I'm forty-two, a NICU nurse at Memorial, and my schedule is two weeks of nights followed by a week off, which is chaos for dating but I make it work. Divorced nine years, raised my son mostly on my own, and he's off at MJC now so I'm officially an empty nester and I don't know what to do with myself. I want someone who understands that I might fall asleep during a movie because I've been up for twenty hours, and who thinks that's okay. Someone who'd bring me coffee when I'm post-shift and zombie-eyed. I'm nurturing, tired, funny in a dry way, and I want a man who's settled in his own life. No one still figuring out their twenties at forty-five, please.