Second-generation Modestan seeking real

My mom grew up here, my grandma grew up here, and I'm the third generation trying to make a life in this town without apology. I'm thirty-nine, a social worker for the county, divorced seven years with two kids in middle school. My life is full and challenging and I'm proud of what I've built. But I'm lonely in the way that only hits at the end of the day when the kids are asleep and the house is quiet. I want a man who understands that my time is limited but my heart is available. Someone who'd sit with me on the back steps with a cup of tea and listen to the irrigation running in the orchard behind my fence. I'm steady, warm, and I'll always tell you the truth even when it's hard.