Hot valley nights and cold drinks

I'm thirty and I've decided that the secret to surviving a Modesto summer is a kiddie pool, a twelve-pack, and a playlist that's mostly oldies. I work construction admin and I'm outside enough to know the meaning of the word hot. Divorced two years, no kids, and I spent the first year post-split being angry and the second year being awesome. I want someone who's past their own anger phase. A man who'd sit in a lawn chair with me at nine p.m. when it's still ninety degrees and not complain. I'm low-drama, high-energy, and I'll try anything once as long as it doesn't involve heights. I want someone who brings the same energy. No couch potatoes need apply.