Recovered romantic ready to try again

I'm forty-five and I've been single for six years by choice — I needed to figure out why I kept choosing men who couldn't love me back, and with the help of a good therapist I mostly did. I work as an office manager for a dental practice, I've lived in the same duplex near La Loma for eleven years, and my life is quiet and stable and mine. I want to share it now, on purpose, with someone who's also done the work. A man who communicates, doesn't disappear when things feel tender, and knows that intimacy isn't just physical. I'm warm, reflective, and I'll ask you questions that make you think. If you're scared of depth, I'm not your girl. If you're craving it, let's talk.