Riverfront Park bench, space for two

There's a specific bench in Riverfront Park where I sit after work sometimes and watch the river and the joggers and the occasional heron, and it's the most peaceful fifteen minutes of my day. I'm thirty-four, a marketing director for a local brewery, and roughly eighteen months ago a four-year relationship concluded because we loved each other but wanted fundamentally different lives. No villain, no betrayal, just incompatibility that we were honest about. I want a man who's past the phase of figuring out what he wants — someone who knows and isn't afraid to say it. I'm social, creative, and I've built a career around connecting with people, which means I'm really good at first dates and working on being good at the ones after that. I want someone who sticks around past the easy part. That's the part I'm interested in.