Lost Forty brews, found connection

I'm at Lost Forty more than I should admit, but in my defense their pale ale is excellent and it's five minutes from my office. I'm thirty, a commercial banker, and about a year ago I untangled myself from a man who was kind but emotionally unavailable in a way I didn't recognize until I was in too deep. I've done the work since then — therapy, reflection, the whole process — and I'm clearer about what I need now. I want a man who's emotionally open without being unmoored, someone who can talk about feelings without it being either a crisis or a performance. I'm put-together, ambitious, and I have my life in order, but underneath the professional exterior I'm softer than people expect. I want someone who gets to see that version of me. Send me a message that makes me want to open up.