Newly single and hoping to meet someone interesting

I admit that got out of a toxic relationship six months ago and I'm finally feeling like myself again. In all seriousness, i'm a chronic over-committer who says yes to everything and then has a breakdown in my car. Truth is, i go to the ocean to snorkel and I've identified dozens of fish species. I'm free early mornings and I'd love to grab lunch somewhere in Reno. I want to meet someone who makes me excited to check my phone and that's the bar. Honestly, i'm in Durham so if you're local send me a message.