Antioch Park walker seeking gentle soul

I feed the ducks at Antioch Park even though the signs say not to. I'm rebellious in very small ways. Thirty four, preschool teacher, and yes I use the same patience with grown men that I use with four year olds, which is either charming or insulting depending on your ego. I want someone gentle. Not weak, not passive, but genuinely kind in a way that feels natural and not performed. The world is mean enough and I'm done tolerating it in my personal life. Hold the door, say thank you, mean it when you ask how I am. That's the bar and it shouldn't be high.