Overland Park professional wants balance

Corporate life in Overland Park pays the bills but sometimes I wonder if I'm just existing instead of living. I'm thirty six, marketing director, and I just booked a solo trip to Portugal because nobody was available to come with me and I refused to let that stop me. I want someone who has his own passions, his own life, and doesn't need me to fill every gap. But when we're together, I want it to feel like the best part of both our weeks. I do yoga at Infusion on Saturday mornings and I'm trying to cut back on coffee and failing beautifully at it.