Power and Light skeptic wants genuine

Everyone says I should go to Power and Light to meet people and everyone is wrong. That scene is not me. I'm thirty, paralegal downtown, and my idea of a good Friday is splitting a pizza at Il Lazzarone and walking to the library before it closes. I'm a introvert who pushes herself to be social because isolation is its own kind of trap. I want a man who doesn't need a crowd to have fun, who can sit across from me at a quiet table and make me feel like the only person in the room. Bonus points if you know what the Kauffman Center is and actually go.