Looking for a man with a plan

Thirty-seven, I'm a project manager at a construction firm, I'm used to men who don't listen to me, and I'm over it. I want someone who hears me the first time. I'm single because I was married for eight years to a man who treated me like a secretary and I'm done being managed. I want a partner. Someone who'll help me plan a trip, not just show up when it's time. I love a Friday happy hour at a spot in Fondren, I love a Sunday exploring somewhere I haven't been, and I want someone who brings ideas, not just availability. I'm capable and I want someone who finds that attractive instead of threatening.