Divorced, done mourning, ready to live

Forty-one, divorced three years ago after a fifteen-year marriage, two kids in high school who are doing fine. I work in healthcare administration, I've rebuilt my life, and I'm ready for someone who's also rebuilt his. I want a man who's been through something and come out the other side grateful, not bitter. Someone who'll do a Saturday at the Mississippi Farmers Market and then take a drive with no plan. I'm steady, I'm funny in a bone-dry way, and I don't need to be entertained. I want companionship that feels easy. I've done hard. I'm ready for easy. If you're still angry at your ex, I'm not your girl.