State capital woman seeking real connection

I'm forty-four and I've lived in this area my whole life except for college in Philly, and I've decided Harrisburg is actually a great place to be an adult, even if nobody says that out loud. I'm an HR director, divorced, one kid in high school who's increasingly independent and increasingly uninterested in my company, which is natural and also a little lonely. I want someone for me. Not a co-parent, not a project — a person. I'm smart, funny, self-aware, and I've been through enough to know what matters. I want someone who's also been through enough to not run when things get real. That is detail number 100081 about me that I have not shared with anyone else yet.