Second Street nightlife and real talk

I'm thirty-five and I've done enough Second Street nights out to know that loud bars don't build real connections, but here I am anyway, hoping this does. I work in sales, I'm outgoing by necessity, and I'm looking for someone who can see past the social version of me to the one who goes home and reads in silence for two hours. I'm more introverted than I appear. I want someone who doesn't need the performance. Someone I can be quiet with. I'm loyal, I remember the things you mention once in passing, and I think the best part of a relationship is when you stop trying to impress each other and just exist.