Pride festival energy all year

I'm thirty and Harrisburg Pride is my favorite weekend of the year and I need someone who brings that energy even when it's February and we're just sitting on a couch. I work in HR for a healthcare system, I'm queer, and I'm looking for someone who gets that identity isn't a phase or a footnote — it's just part of who I am. I'm funny, supportive, and I give genuinely good advice that I almost never follow myself. I want someone who makes me feel safe enough to be soft. I'm tough on the outside because I had to be, and I'm tired of it. I want to rest a little.