Music Is My First Love, You Can Be Second

I'm 31 and I play bass in a band that plays the downtown bars maybe twice a month. I work at a record store to pay rent, which is either romantic or impractical depending on your perspective. I'm looking for someone who can handle that I have a life that exists outside of a relationship, that music matters to me the way some people care about sports. The punk house shows on the east side of town are where I feel most alive — sticky floors and terrible sound and genuine people. I want a man who'll stand in the back with me and nod when a song is good. If you know what that nod means, we'll get along.