Marathon Runner, Sprint Dater, Over Both

I'm 41 and I've run seven marathons and zero successful relationships, which is a ratio I'd like to improve. I work as an accountant for a construction firm and I'm the most boring exciting person you'll ever meet — spreadsheets by day, twenty-mile training runs by weekend. My last relationship ended because he said I cared more about running than him, and he wasn't entirely wrong. I'm trying to find balance. The Hawthorne Trail is my thinking road, the long straightaway where everything quiets down. I want a man who has his own passion, his own thing that makes him light up, so we can be obsessed with things together rather than competing for attention.