Sunshine State Skeptic Looking to Be Proven Wrong

I'm 34, I work in marketing for a tech company that lets me work remote, and I moved to Gainesville from Tampa specifically because it's cheaper and weirder. I was right about both. I'm skeptical about online dating because my last three matches were either catfish or men who listed their height first in their profiles, which tells you everything. I want someone who leads with personality, not measurements. The underground music scene here is better than Tampa's was — smaller, meaner, more genuine. I want a man who'll come to a show in a warehouse with me and not complain about his ears after. I'm prickly on the outside and soft on the inside, like a Florida palm.