Reformed Party Girl Seeks Steady Man

My twenties were a blur of midtown bars and bad decisions and I regret exactly none of it except maybe that one haircut. I'm 33 now, I manage a retail store in the Oaks Mall, and I've calmed down considerably. I still know how to have a good time, but my idea of a good time has shifted from shots to a decent bottle of wine and a conversation that doesn't involve shouting over music. I want to meet a guy who's past his wild phase too, who doesn't need to go out every weekend to feel alive. The changing of seasons here is so subtle you'd miss it if you weren't paying attention — I want someone who notices the small shifts.