Highland neighborhood homebody

I live in Highland and I can see downtown from my porch and I still never go. I'm 37, a graphic designer, and I've mastered the art of the quiet life in a loud city. I'm looking for someone who also prefers dinner parties to dive bars at this point. I'm warm, a little nerdy, and I make a green chili that's been called life-changing. I want someone who'll walk to the farmers market with me and carry the bags. I've done the wild years and I'm in the cozy ones now. Find me someone who's there too.