Recovering Perfectionist Seeks Imperfect Man

I spent my twenties trying to build the perfect life and I'm spending my thirties learning to let it be messy. I'm 39, a family therapist, and yes, I analyze everything, but I keep it to myself on dates. Mostly. I've been single for two years after ending an engagement that should have ended years before it did. I live in a craftsman house near Duck Creek that's older than my grandparents and has the plumbing to prove it. I want a man who's imperfect and honest about it. Someone who'll tell me when he's had a bad day instead of pretending everything's fine. Emotional transparency is the most attractive quality a person can have. Show me your cracks and I'll show you mine.