Southside soul, North Shore heart

I split my time between the Southside and the North Shore and I love both for different reasons. I'm twenty-nine, a UX designer, and I've been single for about a year after a relationship that ended because I wanted to get married and he didn't. That clarity was painful but useful. I want a man who's on the same page about the future, who's creative in some way, and who thinks emotional intelligence is the most attractive thing about a person. I like art walks, good coffee, and I have a cat who's my entire personality. I'm funny, I'm warm, and I want someone who matches my energy. Tell me something that makes me want to know more.