University City student wants older energy

I'm finishing my masters at UNC Charlotte and I live in University City and I'm exhausted in the best way. I'm twenty five, studying public administration, and I work at a coffee shop on Tryon to cover rent. I want someone who's past the college mindset, who has a direction, and who doesn't think my ambition is cute rather than serious. I'm going to run a city someday and I want someone who finds that attractive, not threatening. I don't need to be taken care of, I need to be respected. There's a difference and most men don't know it.