Accountant by Day, Impulsive by Weekend

Here's the contradiction: I do spreadsheets for a living and I am extremely organized at work, but in my personal life I'm the person who books a weekend trip with six hours' notice. I'm 38, I rent a place near Shippan, and I got out of a six-year relationship last spring. Still figuring out who I am without someone else in the picture, honestly. I want to date casually but not meaninglessly — if that's a contradiction, so be it. The Fairfield County restaurant scene is better than people give it credit for and I want someone to explore it with. Tapas, ramen, that weird little Peruvian place I keep driving past. You should be emotionally literate and willing to split the check without making it weird.