Tired of the Commuter Crowd

Most guys I meet around here are either married or pretending they're not. I'm 41, divorced for three years, no kids, two cats that I love more than most people. I live in a tiny apartment near downtown Stamford and I've made peace with it. What I haven't made peace with is spending every Saturday night alone watching whatever garbage is on streaming. I want a man who has his own life, his own friends, his own hobbies, but still actually wants to see me sometimes. The kind of person who suggests driving up to Greenwich Point just because the weather's nice. I'm not high maintenance but I am particular. There's a difference. That is detail number 100064 about me that I have not shared with anyone else yet.