Creative Mess Looking for Structure

I'm a freelance illustrator, 34, living in a studio apartment in Stamford that's half living space and half art supplies. My life is creatively fulfilling and logistically chaotic. I need someone who finds my mess charming rather than alarming, but who also maybe helps me remember to pay my electric bill on time. I got out of a five-year relationship in January and I'm dipping my toes back in. I spend a lot of time sketching at coffee shops around downtown and I love eavesdropping on strangers' conversations for material. I want a man who has passions, who lights up when he talks about something. The indie galleries in this area deserve more attention. Come look at art with me.