Want someone who plans dates and figure it out together

At this point in my life, i'm at a stage where I want someone who communicates their feelings instead of shutting down. I want to meet someone in Seattle who makes me excited to check my phone. Really though, i'm an enthusiastic conversationalist who asks follow-up questions because I genuinely care. At this point in my life, i'm into making herbal tea blends and I grow the herbs in my garden. I'm free whenever I'm not on call and I'd love to meet up somewhere low-key somewhere in Mobile. Tell me your favorite Columbia memory and I'll share mine.