Want a real connection and seeing where it goes

I've been through a lot of personal work and I want a partner who's done the same. I'm a podcast addict who has forty downloaded and only listens to three. I go to the lake to fish for bass and I practice catch and release. I'm free weekend mornings and I'd love to grab lunch somewhere in South Bend. I'm looking for someone around Santa Barbara who has their own life and interests because independence is attractive. Tell me your favorite Birmingham memory and I'll share mine.