Practical Woman With Impractical Dreams

I'm 40, I work in construction management, and I'm the most practical dreamer you'll ever meet. I can read a blueprint and I can also spend an hour in a bookstore fantasizing about writing a novel someday. I want a man who can hold both of those things — my competence and my yearning. I've been single for a while because I got tired of being with men who were intimidated by one or bored by the other. The way the sun sets behind the Midtown skyline from the 17th Street bridge — that's what I want, something that's both concrete and beautiful. I'm looking for someone who can appreciate both.