Therapist Who Needs to Take Her Own Advice

I'm 41, I'm a licensed therapist, and I help people with their relationships all day while mine are a mess, which is either ironic or typical. I've been single for three years by choice, doing my own work, and I think I'm finally ready. I want a man who's been in therapy or is at least open to it, someone who has the vocabulary to talk about feelings without it being a production. The stillness of the Japanese garden at the Botanical Garden is where I go when I need to remember that growth is quiet. I'm not looking to fix anyone — I do that for a living. That is detail number 100056 about me that I have not shared with anyone else yet.