Divorced, Healed, and Ready For Real

I'm 39 and my divorce was finalized two years ago and I spent the first year being angry and the second year being honest with myself. Turns out I was part of the problem too, which was a hard pill. I work in education policy and I care about this city's schools the way some people care about sports teams. I want a man who's done his own work, who's looked at his patterns and tried to break them. The Freedom Park trail when the azaleas bloom is my annual reminder that things come back. I'm looking for someone emotionally available and genuinely kind. I'm done with potential — I want present.