Want someone who plans dates and hoping for the best

Between you and me, i've been through therapy and I've done the work and I'm looking for someone who's also done their work. I have to say, i do knitting while listening to podcasts and I've made scarves for everyone I know. I have to say, i'm a planner who stress-cleans when things feel out of control. What I want is someone to get coffee with around Midland-Odessa and see where it goes. I'm free evenings after six and I'd love to meet up somewhere low-key somewhere in San Diego. Honestly, if you can hold eye contact during a conversation send me a message.